“It validates the reality of cumulative trauma in emergency service.”

“Burned Out speaks directly to the reality many firefighters live but rarely talk about. The cumulative weight of traumatic calls doesn’t disappear at the end of a shift — it builds. Iris Waichler captures that truth with clarity and respect, offering both validation and practical guidance. This book helps first responders recognize when their emotional load is reaching its limit — before the wheels fall off. It’s a vital resource for anyone in the fire service.”
Kendrick Low GellermannRetired San Francisco Firefighter
“Reading Burned Out helped me understand the emotional distance I sometimes felt at home. It gave words to experiences I couldn’t explain and provided practical strategies to improve communication. This book doesn’t just support first responders — it supports the families who love them. It fosters compassion, understanding, and hope.”
Spouse of a Career Firefighter
“Paramedics and EMTs are trained to manage chaos, stabilize crises, and protect lives. What we are not trained to do is process the emotional aftermath. Burned Out sheds light on the long-term psychological impact of repeated exposure to trauma and offers tools for healthier coping and communication. It should be required reading in every EMS department.”
Senior EMS Supervisor & Paramedic (30+ Years of Service)
“This book brings the public into a world most people never see — the emotional, physical, and relational challenges that first responders and their families face every day. It’s an accessible resource for first responders, their families, and those who want to better understand and support those who put their lives on the line.”
Arash Javanbakht, MDPsychiatrist & Leading Expert on First Responder Trauma

“Breaks the stigma surrounding mental health in emergency services.”